How to Stop Dog Whining

In this article, we’ll discuss why dogs whine and what you can to do stop your dog from whining.  Dogs communicate in many ways, and one of those ways is whining.  Dogs will whine they they’re anxious or nervous, when they want attention, or if they’re excited.  It’s a natural way for a dog to communicate, but you can learn how to stop dog whining, especially if your dog is whining excessively.

How to Stop Dog Whining

How to Stop Dog WhiningWhy Do Dogs Whine?

They Have an Actual Need Such as They’re Hungry, Have to Pee, Are in Pain.  If your dog is whining, the first thing you should consider is whether they’ve been fed recently (and are they eating enough), whether they have water available, if they need to go outside, or if they’re having some sort of physical pain.  You may also consider whether the dog is in need of rest.  This may occur if you’re away from home with the dog for long periods of time.

They Get Excited During Greetings.  Dogs whining when you get home, when someone comes over, or when someone approaches while out on a walk is usually just excitement.

To Show Another Dog They’ll Submit.  Some dogs will start whining while interacting with other dogs or people as a way of displaying a submissive posture (like when they tuck their tail in, or lower their body).  Dogs displaying submissive behavior is their way of communicating that they pose no risk – that they have no intention of being aggressive in any way.

how to stop dog whiningThey Want Attention.  Dogs will often whine in order to get attention, treats, or something they desire like a certain toy, or to go outside, for example.

They’re Anxious or Stressed.  Some dogs will whine when they’re in a stressful situation – this sort of whining is usually involuntary.

They Could Have a Medical Condition or They Could Be Injured.  If your dog is whining excessively, this is the first cause you should consider.  They could be whining because they’re in pain.  It’s important to take your dog to the vet if they start whining suddenly and for no apparent reason.

They’re Suffering from Separation Anxiety.  If your dog only whines just before you’re getting ready to leave the house, it may be separation anxiety.  He may also show other symptoms of separation anxiety such as panting, pacing, or drooling.  Dogs with separation anxiety will often destroy things in the house while you’re gone.  They’ll sometimes show signs of depression.  And they may begin urinating in the house.

Dog separation anxiety is a serious issue.  You can get more information about this in my article (video included), Helping Dog’s Separation Anxiety – How to Teach a Dog to Stay Home Alone.

How to Stop Dog WhiningHow to Stop Dog Whining

When people come over.  You can reduce your dog’s whining while greeting people by diverting him to his favorite toys.  Trying to just tell your dog to be quite during greetings isn’t usually effective because, unless you’ve actually trained your dog to understand what the word, “quiet” means, he won’t understand.  And since whining during greeting is usually caused by excitement, the dog won’t have much control over his behavior.

It’s important to address the excitement issue most of all.  Try to downplay greetings – don’t act like it’s such a big deal if someone comes to the door.  Shouting, “Aunt Debbie’s here!” when your sister pulls in the driveway, for example, is only going to ignite your dog’s excitement.  The best thing you can do is to set the right example for your dog, in any greeting situation.  Remain calm and quiet, and remember to hand him a toy to help him manage his excitement.

How to Stop Dog WhiningI had a Boston Terrier named Cagney who got so excited when I got home, that he’d run to his toy box and quickly grab a toy to greet me at the door with. I didn’t adopt Cagney until he was about 12 years old.  So I wonder…did someone use this technique with him years earlier?  It seemed to really help him manage his excitement if he could grab a toy.  (That’s him in the picture grabbing his favorite toy, Monkey!)

If He’s Being (too) Wimpy With Other Dogs.  As we’ve said, dogs will display submissive behaviors with people or other dogs if they’re trying to send the message that they don’t plan to be the aggressor (or alpha dog) in the situation.  This happens most often if the dog feels a threat or aggression being directed at them.  It is a normal behavior for dogs.  The best way to reduce this sort of whining is to help build your dog’s confidence.

Doing obedience training helps.  Activities like throwing a ball or frisbee and rewarding the dog when he does well also helps to build confidence.  Using a rope or toy to play tug-of-war with your dog, and letting him win, helps confidence. Remember most dogs prefer to be a follower, not a leader.  So don’t worry too much if your dog tends to act submissive toward other dogs.

stop dog whiningIf They Use Whining to Get Attention.  The best way to address your dog’s whining to get attention is to make it not pay off for the dog.  If his whining gets him what he wants – your attention – then he won’t stop.  Some dog owners actually make this worse without realizing.

Looking at the dog, touching the dog, or talking to the dog in response to his whining is just reinforcing the whining behavior.  Your best choice is to not respond to the dog in any way so he’ll come to the conclusion that whining is not the answer; it’s not the way to get your attention.

In addition to not reinforcing your dog’s whining for attention by giving him attention, you also should give the dog a reward when he’s quiet.  Making a habit of only giving your dog attention when he’s quiet is the best way to teach this.  And repeatedly giving your dog a treat or affection only when he’s quiet will help.

If They’re Showing Signs of Anxiety or Stress.  Stopping whining as a result of stress or anxiety is difficult unless you’re able to identify and eliminate the source of stress or anxiety.  If your dog is whining, pacing, circling and/or licking, he may be under stress or suffering from anxiety.  You can get some help from this article, How to Calm a Dog’s Anxiety – How to Calm a Fearful Dog.  Products such as Adaptil can be helpful.  If the problem persists, I strongly recommend seeing your veterinarian for professional help and advice.

How to Stop Dog WhiningCover Your Dog’s Basic Health Needs

Make sure your dog is getting enough food and water (seriously…is he whining because he’s hungry or because his water dish is empty?)  Make sure he’s getting enough exercise.  And always make sure your dog is getting enough love and attention.  And, as we mentioned earlier, realize your dog’s whining may be caused by physical pain or some sort of medical issue. You should see your vet right away if your dog is whining excessively.

How to Stop Dog WhiningNeed More Help with Your Dog’s Whining?

Dealing with dog behavior issues can be challenging and frustrating for dog owners.  I highly recommend a dog training website called, The Online Dog Trainer, run by Professional Dog Trainer and Behavioral Specialist, “Doggy Dan.”  The site contains more than 300 videos of Doggy Dan working with dogs on every behavior issue you could think of, including whining.  You can choose the dog training issue you’re having and get instant help with it from Doggy Dan by clicking HERE.

How to Stop Dog Whining

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